We know it all too well: as Christians, it can be quite difficult to find a compatible Christian partner. And being selective IS a good thing when you’re serious about a God-centered Christian relationship. I should know, as I’m very blessed with a husband who knows God and wants his children to, as well.
On the other hand, I know quite a few Christians who, sadly, have married and dated non-Christian spouses…and seen their relationship fall apart quite devastatingly as a result. As Craig Groeschel writes in the excellent Going All the Way, there can only be one #1 in a successful marriage–and that #1 MUST be Jesus, not your lover. Only with Him as your #1 will a relationship last and bloom.
It’s just as important for any children you may raise, to put Jesus first in your life and theirs!
So hey, if you’re going to go all the way–do it right. And when you have that focus down, you can start looking for a mate who shares that value and focus.
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If you feel you’ve made God your #1 and want to find a compatible partner who’s OK being #2 (if he/she loves God he will respect that), I suggest a useful site called ChristianCafe.com. Online dating is a tricky thing, but if you’re serious about finding a Chrsitian partner, I highly recommend sites such as this one that are dedicated to finding you compatible Christians.
Of course, prayer and closeness to God are just important! I can’t emphasize enough submitting to God’s will and ensuring that the person you meet believes in Christ just as much, and RESPECTS your beliefs.
If they don’t, tread carefully. And don’t commit to any long-term relationship until they accept Jesus as Lord as well. A relationship without that commitment is doomed–even if things seem OK. Because you will only enjoy the fruits of love MORE when Jesus is the focus. God will reward you for seeking HIM first!
I don’t have to tell you any more about the importance of entering a relationship with someone just as committed to a life of love with Jesus. So take a look at ChristianCafe.com, and God willing, you may just find the Christian mate you’ve always wanted!
I hope this article helps you. May your Christian walk be a great one!